Selected Passages
Selected passages
Right beneath the anger there is a well of hurt. We stay at the anger because it gives us control, because we are afraid to go into the hurt ~ Iyanla Vanzant
Trying to rally the guys to tell themselves a different story, to go from surrender - I can’t - to defiance: Bring it on
It’s not just about being in the moment; it’s also about processing the moment, getting over the moment, moving on from the moment, and then appreciating the new moment that becomes the moment.
“Tigers don’t lose sleep over the opinions of sheep.”
Coaches like to say, “There’s no ‘I’ in team,” but Chip would point out: “There’s an ‘I’ in win.” He wanted our self-talk to be personally accountable, but for the good of the team: I will dominate this play, I will not let my teammates down.
Expecting everyone to treat you the way you treat them is more about you than them